Good! You said what needs to be said and make no apologies for it. I like that. I also have stories about being in a hall with 80% women who think they are elderetts.
She wants the org to tell her what to do. She wants the org to tell her she is being a bad girl or good girl. She can't let go of the warm and fuzzies of Jehovah up in the sky looking over her. Like a lot of women, unfortunately, she had (and still has) a bad relationship with her father.
It seems she is using the org to fill that void. I look around the kingdom hall and wonder if the same story isn't true of the other middle-aged women clinging to this org even as they drag in late looking miserable as hell.
That's 99.9% of all JWs and religion in general. The same applies to the men as well.